He cheated im over it

So I found out my partner of 8 years is cheating and unlike previous years where I had suspicion I actually had proof this time so when I confronted him he wanted to try to deflect . I told him it was over and we can figure out things with our 4 children . I'm a stay at home mom . I go to classes online and I try but I knew our time was coming to a end ( he is stuck in time and I am evolving ) Honestly I'm scared of what's to come but also excited. I don't have a village so I have no one to really talk to my sister was like my best friend but she passed away a few years ago and socially I never recovered with her loss and then having kids . I don't know what the future holds but I know I will do everything in my power to take care of my children . I just wish he would have tried harder . I'm hurt but I've cried so many tears over the years that I couldn't this time .sorry ladies I just needed to vent a little
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Daaaaaamn girl! You could be a model you are so gorgeous! I’m sorry you are dealing with this, babe. Keep your head up! You are strongest when it’s for your babies ❤️

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You’re stunning mama! I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I cam only imagine the pain you feel from losing your sister 😪 feel free to message me anytime 🙏🏾❤️

@Ashley ❤️❤️❤️ thank you girl 🙏 I truly appreciate it . My babies are really keeping my strong

@Monie🧿 thank you so much you honestly don't know how much that means to me ❤️❤️

It’s okay to vent and to cry; if the low quality of a man can’t appreciate you that’s okay it’s his loss not yours. You are strong independent mama you got this.

It's ok momma. I found out my fiance waS cheating. Before during and after pregnancy. I was devastated and fell into a deep state of depression. But everytime I look at my baby he makes me stronger. Men don't appreciate women who sacrifice so much for them sometimes. His loss.

Good for you girl! Knowing your worth and owning it! You are gorgeous and he didn’t deserve you❤️❤️

@Josalyn you are absolutely beautiful!!! You got this mommy… move forward with your children 💕 I remember how depressed I got when one of my ex cheated on me. It definitely took a toll on me mentally and emotionally. I completely understand the part of losing a sister that was your best friend…my favorite sister that I talked to on a daily basis was critically ill then passed away later on in life. She was more than a sister, she was my best friend and a mother to me… than anyone I ever knew!!! Let it out, talk about it and process the fact of the matter that you found it sooner than later. No more wasted years of your beautiful and blessed life with him. I went back multiple times to my abusive ex out of fear and also loneliness… when I left for the last time… I was so exhausted of everything that was done to me…please me strong… sending you virtual hugs mommy 💕

If possible u should probably leave Hattiesburg mississippi. Doesn’t sound like there is much there or many options. I am praying for you. Things will be so much better u will see

Omg wow

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@Mandy thank you so much 🙏

@Libbi exactly I'm excited for what the future holds I just hate he couldbt be a part of it .

@Andrea most definitely already left I wasted no time I'm in Missouri at the moment

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Aw mama don’t be sad, you are so gorgeous, beautiful and an ABSOLUTE QUEEN!! Wouldn’t be surprised if the fling looks like aunt Edna tbh. He traded a Rolex for a Casio 🤦‍♀️

Sis 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 You got this

You got this mama, may God bless your efforts and courage. You’re so beautiful and strong and you have the best mindset for this journey, which is half of the win. 💞💞💞

You got this 💓 you and your children will thrive.

One thing about us moms with a man or without with a husband or without with a boyfriend or without with the kids dad or without we gonna find away to take care of our children I hope you finish your classes and find away to better your happiness you and your children deserve it hugs 💓

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