What age should a dad no longer dress in front of their daughter?

For example she’s in the bedroom with us when we dress and get ready for the day/ in bathroom with us when we go to bathroom/ shower ect.

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I’ve never been comfortable with it, if my daughter’s in the room he doesn’t change in there period. That’s just us though

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My husband never really liked her being around when he changed. He usually goes to a different room. Around 3&4 they start to get really curious. But every family is different too.

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You said what age should a mom no longer dress in front of their daughter as well

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I'm pretty sure my husband will never be fully nude Infront of our daughter, but him like in boxers it is what it is 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Why would a mother stop dressing Infront of their daughter...unless the daughter expresses she's uncomfortable 🤔

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well i knew i like girls around 4

So I’m pretty sure the same reason you think men shouldn’t dress in front of their daughters
Is the very same reason women shouldn’t either

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i mean his penis isn’t out

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I found out I liked girls in middle school but still wasn't sexually attracted to my mother, and I think it's completely fine for a father to dress in front of his daughter or even just be in boxers around their daughters. Who said I think dad's shouldn't dress Infront of their daughters I never said that, that's ur assumption.

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Exactly I feel like it's completely fine to be in boxers around his daughter and dress as long as his pp isn't out

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so why would you be sexually attracted to your father ?
If you feel nothing is wrongthen we most likely agree then 🤣🤣

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I never said I was sexually attracted to my father either🤔 I've seen my dad completely nude ON ACCIDENT a couple of times and him in his boxers constantly lol. Like I stated before I think it's fine for both parents to dress Infront of their kids they made them and if u adopt at an infant age that's okay too

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honey i said that because you said “ i found out i like girls in middle school but wasn’t sexually attracted to my mom”
The point is even if you like men why would you be attracted to your father 🤔
Okay then we agree on that nothing is wrong w either parent dressing in front of their child …
So we talkin about

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My husband isn’t comfortable with it really at all, at least not being nude. He’ll walk in in underwear and get clothes but is never nude around them. I’d say once kids start to notice things it’s best to have some modesty, not out of body shame, but out of teaching them what boundaries adults should have around them so they aren’t confused if anyone else tries to cross those boundaries with inappropriate intentions.

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she came from him type ish you know unless it’s a traumatic experience you went through and protecting her or you feel off in general but no

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My husband has never really dressed/undressed fully nude in front out Daughter but, for sure by age 1 he’s been very aware and strict on not doing it.

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Whenever he feels uncomfortable with it.

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Obviously you're having some compression troubles but all in all it seems like we agree Hun so let's leave it at that cause u aren't making any sense your turning something simple into something complex and it's not. Cause I asked why a mother would not dress in front of their daughter and u responded that u liked girls...which has nothing to do with this so my response was appropriate and had nothing to do with being sexually attracted to my dad...so yeah definitely some comprehension issues here but all in all we agree

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honey if you don’t get it you don’t get it & that’s fine
I tried to end the conversation multiple times because we actually agree on the matter

The point is if a father shouldnt change in front of his daughter neither shouldnt a mother

If you see nothing wrong w a father changing in front of his daughter then there is also nothing wrong w a mother doing it

Idk how many other ways i can explain this to you 🤣🤣🤣
Like idk why this is so hard to understand
It’s simple math you’re making it hard darling
So once again we agree
So what are we talkin about

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So your just slow that's what I'm getting I've said the exact same fuckin thing we agree on all that wtf are u trying g to argue is English not ur first language or something. Your whole "sexually attracted to the dad" comment was out of place and unnecessary like that had nothing to do with the conversation. It's just giving u felt some type of way cause u offered your little coming out story when it had nothing to do with the conversation. Cause how tf did u get sexually attracted to the dad...from "I learned I liked girls in middle school but I'm not sexually attracted to my mom" and then u ASSUMED I had an issue with a dad dressing Infront of their kid. You just wanted someone to argue with and ato you're just talking

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It's not simple math this has nothing to do with math, wrong analogy Hun

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man what are you talking about if we agree
You said i want to argue but you’ve mentioned me first when my comment had nothing to do w you, i was responding to the post, also once we established that we agree and i said multiple times that we agree and you kept commenting back aggressively
I’ve said the said thing
We agree
We agree
We agree
When i say what are we talkin about
I’m askin you why are we having this conversation if we agree 🤣🤣🤣

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i mean that’s pretty strange of ur not dressing in front of ur child because u think they might be sexually attracted to u…

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Dont have a daughter but my Dad never changed in front of me from what i remmeber lol i would probably find it strange🤷🏻‍♀️.. as far as my son I don’t think I would change in the nude around him probably when he hits age like three, because then they’re more aware of stuff and i wanna teach him privacy but I feel like with mothers it’s different, might sound ignorant .. so I would probably still wear like a bra around or like change with like my underwear and stuff in front of him while he’s younger, like once theyre not a kid kid its just like boundaries need to be established…&like it’s my son it’s not like it’s supposed to be anything inappropriate or weird

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i never said that 🤣🤣
What would be the reason a father shouldn’t change in front of their daughter ?
She said i still wasn’t attracted to my mother (I’m pretty sure no one is attracted to their mother)
My counter is basically saying so why would someone be sexually attracted to their father ? (Hopefully no one is attracted to their father either)

To me if a father shouldn’t change in from of their daughter then a mother shouldn’t either

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maybe i misunderstood then idk

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I mean...as long as his penis isn't out I don't see a problem. We've never been those to be butt naked around our kids, but I think it's okay to be in boxers. At some point we will stop walking around in undies, but for now I think it's ok

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To get dressed just like pants and a shirt I think it could be older. Changing underwear then stopping at a younger age same with sons. But just putting clothes on for men and women in front of their kids I think could be older

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