Conflicted feelings
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@Karen I still identify as bisexual but recently my feelings for women have been much greater than those for men. Im still in a relationship with my partner the father of my baby. Im confused as to what to do
Do you think that you may actually be gay and no longer attracted to men/your partner in particular?
@Karen I’m not to sure ngl
Defo not a time to make any permanent life changing decisions if you're not sure and full of hormones but worth having a good think about. If you're still attracted to your partner and want to be with him but want to satisfy your want to be with a woman, maybe talk about the possibility of some form of open relationship? Not a free for all by any means, but one with healthy boundaries and good communication.
@Karen Yh I understand
You need to be honest about your feelings and talk to your partner about it! You are riddled with crazy hormones when pregnant too! Xx
I'm bisexual and at times fancied women more then men or men more then women. Hormones play havoc with our emotions as it is x
I’m bisexual too, and am married to a woman and pregnant with our first child. We used to have an open relationship, to cater for needs to be met but it didn’t work for us as it detracted from our love. It’s a hard road to wander when you’re in a committed relationship but talking about things honestly and finding solutions is usually a good step
No one can tell you what to do. If you want to be with your partner then that’s great, but if you’re conflicted then you and only you can figure that out. I don’t think hormones have anything to do with that. I’m also bisexual, and whilst I’ve definitely had more issues with my partner since I got pregnant, it’s still only been him
You can't just stop being bisexual. You are or you aren't. You can still be bisexual and be in a committed relationship. It's only a problem if you want to act on your feelings for someone else. Give yourself a break x