Almost 3 year old & always cranky

Hi everyone, want to ask you guys for your opinion because I don’t have any close family members with kids and I just don’t know. My son will be 3 at the end of this week and he’s generally great, but there are times when he gets SO crabby like incredibly crabby about everything- I’m singing in the car quietly - he tells me to be quiet, I smile at him, he says stops smiling, I go to play w him he says no stop playing with me, we’re eating at the table he wants help w his toy standing up, he asks for help, I go to help, he yells at me how I’m doing it and says to go away, I try to take space, he cries no mommy. In the car he’s sitting next to his 1 year old sister, his toy was pointing in her direction, and he was mad that his sister was looking at it. I just honestly feel like I’m walking on eggshells all the time. I sometimes look defeated and upset as much as I try to hide my frustration the he asks why are you upset mommy. I just feel like am I literally the only one or is this typical toddler behavior bc I truly just don’t know. Thank you for your thoughts in advance!!
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I'm right there with you mama. Wish I had an answer but I do not like this season

I too am in the same position. last week my son wanted his phone which was dead, so I explained to him that mommy has to charge your phone. He went into the kitchen throwing a fit so I gave him a hug and told him I understand that you are upset mommy will play dinosaurs with you, and he slapped me. I told him why did you do that, that makes mommy sad. I took him to the livingroom and just held him then he slapped me again. I got to the point I had to put him in my daughter's playpen and walk outside. I came back in 5 minutes later and he cried and said mommy I miss you so I picked him up and I hugged him then he slapped me again. Back into the playpen he went and back outside I went. My reasoning for going outside was because I had a mental breakdown I cried and kept blaming myself like what am I doing wrong for him to treat me like that... then two days ago he comes up to me and says mommy and I said yes baby and he says "I hate me" I am still trying to figure out what my next steps are.

I think it is normal for their age. My daughter does the same. I think it is a natural way for them to become more independent beings.

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