Breastfeeding a 2 year old

Hello mamas, I am in need of some advice from other moms who are still breastfeeding their toddler. My daughter just turned 2 and I am still breastfeeding her. Of course she is also eating three meals a day with snacks in between but she chooses to breastfeed. It’s more of a comfort thing for her, she will ask for “boobie” and may ‘comfort suck’ for a few minutes before stopping and continuing playing. I have always loved breastfeeding as I am a stay at home mom. However, my partner has constantly been putting pressure on me to stop breastfeeding already since she is 2 years old. I start to feel guilty because he doesn’t feel like I am respecting his wishes and that we are not a team on this topic. When I tell my daughter “no more boobie”, she starts to cry and becomes upset. I wish my partner supported me through my breastfeeding journey and understood that me and my daughter is not ready to completely stop yet. I’ve been weaning her off by using a product I purchased on Amazon, but there are still times throughout the day where she still nurses. Any other moms have similar experiences or advice for me? Should I tell my partner that this is my choice and he just needs to get over it?! I’d love to here from you ladies! Thank you!
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I'm right there with you in this journey of breastfeeding a toddler. It's clear that your little one finds comfort in breastfeeding, and it's a testament to the special bond you share. I get it, dealing with the partner's perspective can be tricky. While it's important to consider his feelings, remember that this decision is ultimately between you and your daughter. You're the one attuned to her needs and what's best for her. Trust your instincts and keep following the path that feels right. It's easy to feel guilty under external pressure, but there's nothing to be ashamed of. You're providing not only nutrition but also a source of emotional support that's unique to breastfeeding. Be proud of the care you're giving. Remember, every child is different. Just because she's two doesn't mean she's ready to give it up. You'll know when the time is right. Your daughter's comfort matters, and you're the best judge of that. Stay strong, Mama. Your journey is an inspiration.

Thank you! I appreciate your support and words of wisdom ❤️

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