Would this annoy you?

If it bothers you and he doesn’t care about how you feel then don’t let him use your car anymore?

I agree with jaz. My sons father use to do this with my car and never gave me a break, would be gone for hourrrrrsssss and when I call he never answered. Well I got sick of it and I called the police on his ass one day and reported my car stolen. He got the message then

as you should have! I always wonder if people actually do stuff like that when necessary because I know I would

@Kam yall hr came back. He's a bit drunk. Loud and annoying saying he bought steak and shrimp back. I didn't ask him that. At 6p I said give me a sub... its 11p and hes mad I snatched my keys back. Says I'm mean now he's downstairs and loud. Uhg.

@Kam he helps pay the rent, keeps my tank , cleans but he does shit like this.. his flaws are too much to deal with.

do what necessary stuff?

That doesn’t make it ok, regardless of what he’s doing as far as maintaining the household. That’s why he does what he does, because he feels like he’s entitled because he pays all the bills or whatever the case may be. But he also needs to respect you and your things as well because it’s not just about him. And he will keep doing it until something drastic happens so if I were you, I would seriously put my foot down about it before he crashes your car.

@Kam you're right. If he crashes my car I'd kill him. I think I should end it now. Thinking of getting his shit packing it up and taking it back to his mother's. What he does doesn't matter at all. I've told him abt his behavior before he simply doesn't care or respect me. So it's probably best we part ways bc he will not change. Especially at 43 going on 44.

Where is he going ?….. like .. Wtf. No way. That’s not ok. That’s absolutely not acceptable. You deserve a break too. Don’t let him use your car anymore and demand that he make himself useful and responsible for his own children as well. That’s simply not ok.

@Westyn Raiyne bruuuuh. So apparently he must've known I was gonna take his shit to his moms. He called out today. I keep telling him to find somewhere to go. He keeps telling me how mean and wrong I am for putting him out when he has no where to go ( he still has his moms) but he didn't think of that when he came back at 11p and was arguing with me. Now he has the gall to ask me if he can get some before I go pick up the kids.

I may plan next Friday to get rid of him. I'm so irritated bc he won't leave me tf alone.