2 under 2?
So I’m pregnant again and I never thought this would happen to me by accident I always said people like that are so stupid but hey it only takes one time right.. this means having 2 under 2 as my little boy isjt 1 until end of September. According to Flo I’m almost 5 weeks, I know I can’t abort it because I just don’t believe in that but it wasn’t planned and we wasn’t suppsed to try until next year. I just wanted my full attention to be on my little boy. This is all just such bad timing as other people in my family can’t have children at this time and are desperate. I feel so guilty that I’m not ready even tho i know people that would do anything for it. Any advice appreciated please, or anyone else with 2 Under 2 coulr comment and I can pm for a chat would be great x
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Honestly this is so relatable, I felt like I was reading my own post 😅 my LG is one at the end of September and I’m also 4 weeks. Complete shock, although I know what happens when you don’t take precaution 🫣 thing is, we had huge trouble trying to conceive and maintain pregnancy’s and my little girl is a rainbow baby. We had discussion about another, I really want my girl to have a sibling to love and for us another to cherish, but because we assumed we would have somewhat trouble similar, we thought we would start trying now so that by the time we hopefully crossed all those hurdles again, we’d be pregnant when we actually wanted another one. Sounds very naive but honestly the logic made sense to us from our history, so although it was always a possibility we would conceive, it was actually a complete shock. Same mixed emotions as you, I feel so guilty for my baby and if I’ll be able to give her what she needs and enjoy her as much as possible and just how I’ll cope in general after..
An awful birth experience, but everything I’ve read so far has been really reassuring. Whatever the age gap, there’s always going to be difficulties, but atleast we would have barely left the difficult stage before we enter it again so hopefully we won’t find it a shock. Plus once they’re old enough, similar interests so perfect days out suited for everyone, no school runs with a newborn and little sleep isn’t something we’re new to. I also see it as more time at home with the both of them before returning to work and I’m waiting to kickstart a new career path so I won’t have to take time out just as I qualify, I can just wait a little more then head straight in as they start school. We’re already in this phase of life so it definitely has its pros even though it’s petrifying x
Yeah o suppse there are parks to it x the school run is a good example that I didn’t think about, it’s nice to know I’m not alone! Thank you for your message :) I will PM you xx
lol me too my daughters nearly 6 months & im 2 weeks pregnant🫣 was not expecting it I’m so scared
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