My husband was bathing our little one last night, due to it being really warm he took a powerful fan into the bathroom with him whilst my little one was in the bath, had it on the highest setting and I went it and turned it off and said if his feeling too hot to leave it and I’ll bath the baby as that fan would make my baby I’ll!! Anyway he ignored me and carried on bathing our LO and afterwards had a massive go at me when our little one was put down, calling me nasty, and a c*nt for turning the fan off. He is super selfish and in my eyes wasn’t thinking for our baby and just himself!!!
Was I wrong in doing this??
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How he reacted to you is wrong. But I used a fan on my little one last night as he was hysterical crying as he was so hot and this got him to sleep and stayed asleep.. I didn't know there was anything wrong with a fan

I wouldn’t say he did anything wrong by using a fan, but reacting angrily and swearing was wrong

I have heard the fan cannot be directed at baby so If we put on at night we don’t have it facing her

His reaction is really concerning to me, does he often blow up like that and call you names?

I agree with
He definitely shouldn't have kicked off like that either!
often yes when things don’t go his way!
my point exactly! Thank you ♥️
exactly, we use fans in our house too around our little one but not directly on him ♥️ I just think on a wet baby is alarming! X