So I posted yesterday about my family hating me because I’m having a baby and my Nan telling me to get rid of it! I have recently spoke to my mum to tell her and she started crying down the phone. I had to ring her because she is working and I couldn’t hold it in any longer because it was weight on my shoulders. She has got upset the fact I told her last. I feel bad that I told her after my dad etc. (I have also told my Nan I’m not pregnant anymore just to keep her off my back). Mum wants me to go round to hers later, what do I do? I have anxiety! I’m scared.
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Don’t worry go see your mum maybe take her some flowers just explain you’ve had a lot going on for obvious reasons and there was no set plan of who you was going to tell first just how ended up playing out but you understand where she coming from ❤️ thats all you can do just stand by what you want your be fine you’ve got this just go and talk to her and it’s properly good thing that she wants to see you but I can completely understand why you feel the way you do it’s hard time but just know that it’s your life and your baby and you need to do what you want to do and what’s right for you 😊x

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this 😔 sounds like your mom is a soft soul and would try her best to help you. Tell her you were worried about telling her after the harsh reactions you received from other family members.
I hope everything goes well for you and baby 💕