After 3 kids and a failed relationship it feels like my love life is over like I won’t find anyone to accept me with that many children. I was SA as a child and am also scared to date and eventually introduce another man around my kids… It just feels like I’ll be alone forever :/
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Have you been through therapy? Maybe talking with a therapist and working through your anxieties can help. If you’re wanting to date again in the future

I’m sure it’s not but yes I know the feeling. I have 3 kids as well and thought the same but met someone I built a bond with and we’re together now. He loves me, and is in love with me. Cares about about me and everything going on with me but at the same time I’m still scared at times that it will end or not go right but the fact that this relationship even happen shows that I was wrong in the beginning

The introduction of kids though, yes I say that will take a while but yu can for sure find someone . And it might not be as long as you think. The right one will come along.