My boyfriend has a vaping problem and i’ve told him multiple times to stop vaping around me but he continues to. Instead of blowing the smoke out freely he sucks it in, attempting to keep it from blowing in my face. We all know that it’s still going to be in the air and secondhand smoke is a real thing. At this point i’m tired of it and it definitely seems like he doesn’t care addiction or not.
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Part of me wants to think it's sweet that he's at least "trying" to make you more comfortable, but the majority of me is like how hard is it to just step outside for a moment or heck even blow it out of an open window or go into the bathroom if it has a vent fan?! Speaking as a former smoker/vaper. I always tried to be conscious of who was around and if there was a baby around me AT ALL I would go somewhere else (like outside). Not to mention if his vape ever leaks and he gets vape juice on his hands and then touches baby, that will transfer nicotine to baby skin and be absorbed by the baby (same deal with touching/holding baby after regular smoking)

I think i’m going to just start hiding the vapes lol

Hopefully once the baby comes and i make clear i don’t want him touching her after he’s smoked he’ll stop

My bf vaped around his other daughter and I’m 27 weeks, he vapes around me, in the house, car rolls window down, it doesn’t bother me. And it’s honestly okay

Oh no… i hate cigarettes and vapes and weed and all that smoke. And my partner is really trying to quit and never smokes in front of me. And reading all the books about quitting etc. But her mom and sister are smoking all the time everywhere!!!
And after i asked them many times not to vape at the house, they still do. And i see them putting away their vapes when i walk in into the room. Im so annoyed by it.
It is a hard topic. Person really needs to want to quit. Otherwise they will never do it.