Fertility Question

so after way before i was pregnant with my first born, my period had always been really irregular as in there were times where i even get a period and as of 2021 in december i got pregnant with my first son and my husband and i have been doing the deed and no matter how much pregnancy test i take or have taken they all come out negative and i have gotten my period but the beginning of the year other than that i haven’t gotten anything.. any recommendations?!

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Usually they recommend going to a fertility clinic if you don't get pregnant after one year of trying!
I was irregular too, I skept periods pretty regularly... but in the end, the problem was on my husband's side! Like there is always a very low chance it's going to happen, but between my husband and my irregularity, it was basically impossible!
I just suggest you get you and your husband checked to rule out any problem, and then you can decide from there... we wasted so much time just hoping and waiting...

‘ that’s the issue my husband and i have two kids so i’m confused because i wouldn’t think it’s his side..

Things can change through the years... I would still check everything just to have some peace of mind and the assurance that you are not wasting time!

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I really want baby number 2 and am thinking of doing it via IUI as a solo mama!
Has anyone had any experiences with it 👀

One and done… or not?

32ftm. I’m starting to feel so much pressure to have another baby soon as I wean from breastfeeding so they can be close in age and be friends, but I don’t feel ready for pregnancy and newborn trenches again 😭 my husband and I are all we’ve got. Having just one baby without a village has been really tough. Am I being unrealistic wanting another one soon?

Tests

So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

I'm so not meant to be a mother.

My kids won't listen to me get into stuff when they know they aren't supposed to. Telling me no all the time. Only listen to their dad. Laughs when I correct them. I spend most of my time yelling at them because they don't want to listen to me at all. My husband said that I shouldn't have kids. And I am believing him on it. I was never meant to be a mother now. I won't hurt my kids I just want to disappear and make everyone else's lives better without me.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.