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Peaceful Parenting, Together

Baby daddy problems🙄

Someone please tel me it’s going to get better ❤️‍🩹
So recently I lost my car. Me and my children’s dad had a schedule were we would split the children throughout the week. Me having them Sunday- Wednesday and him Wednesday night till Sunday . Over the summer he has taken more of the responsibility of transportation “picking them the girls up on my days to drop them off at daycare in the morning and I would have my mom or step dad pick them up and bring them home to me in the evenings”. Now here we are school time and the days have changed but he’s still providing transportation and I have them Sunday - Thursday and him Thursday- Sunday. Since the new schedule I have asked very politely to be here before 8am so I’m able to catch the bus and get to work by 9 because paying for Ubers and Lyfts are expensive and I have still have to pay other bills. He have disregarded my request and continuously makes it difficult for me and throws out there that my lack off not having a vehicle. Now I’m tired of it . I’ve never put him on child support or asked this man for money for our daughters in 8 years. I take on more of the providing role and nurturing role as far as ( setting appointments, adjusting to health concerns, buying clothes, shoes, and keeping up their maintenance) he does the bare minimum (just picking them up and dropping off, and getting them in his days) beyond that I am the go to for the girls. Now I’m pregnant with my 3rd baby with my boyfriend. I don’t want to keep beefing with the father of my daughters . Will this get any better? Do anybody know how I feel ?