Is it just me??
Am I the only one who wants to scream when someone says “this is the fun part”! No, it’s not! This part sucks. You never know if it’s going to work or not and it’s now become something of a chore. The whole process sucks and it’s not fun getting my feelings hurt over and over every month. It’s even more annoying when someone says “oh, but this is the fun part”. 😡
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No your definitely not the only One. I know exactly how you feel
The cycle of hope and devastation is exhausting on good days no words for the bad days. I'm tired of watching everyone get pregnant around me and for the stupid shit others say to simply make themselves more comfortable.
My fertility doctor told me that they've done studies and the stress and pain that infertility can cause is similar to having cancer🤯🤯🤯
I honestly have not had any “fun” in this whole process - it’s so hurtful when people assume what your experience will be like or how you’ll react to different parts of the process. I’ve tried to surround myself with people who just listen and validate the hell out of what I’m feeling - and sometimes I just need quiet time to process and feel sucky. I think it’s totally normal to feel disheartened and disappointment. And to just carve space to take care of those feelings and your body in the midsts of the whole ordeal.
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