Me and my ex broke up last week, he has yet to reach out and ask how the baby is doing out if he can get pictures or ft calls ( don’t want to see him especially in person) but i’m trying my hardest not to let what happened between us affect her even though i don’t want him around both of us right now (my prior post) so i texted him & mentioned it. i just feel like if i never sent him her newborn photos (came in on Wednesday) then he still would not have tried to reach out about her. If it was me I would text everyday or every other day
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I have this same issue with my ex. If i dont send him pictures then i dont hear from him. I honestly just stopped reaching out. It sucks cause i want my daughter to have a relationship with her father. But im just tired of always reaching out. If he wants to see her/ know how shes doing i feel like he would ask and he doesnt. So i refuse to let him treat her like an option, especially when he's the one who wanted to have a baby in the first place. It suck for sure but my baby doesnt deserve that

it definitely sucks but if he doesn’t respond back i’m just going to keep doing me hit i definitely tried

Document everything. Don't talk about anything except the baby with him. Don't force it if doesn't seem interested. Nail his ass for child support.

definitely will ! thank you

just keep your head up girlie, things will get better