I oversaw that my husband has snapchat on his phone. Last night I saw him texting.. he thiught I was asleep and he had the phone facing towards me. I caught a glance as a list of girls he has been texting on there. I didnt see what the texts were as the phone was far away! How do I confront him? We’ve just had a baby as well. This is all so upsetting!
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Please confront. To be honest . Why would a married man be on snap chat or any social media ? I find it a bit odd . WhatsApp or Facebook is pretty standard . Please be honest
I totally agree with this! Esp sanpchat is just such an odd app to be on! Also saw he has “kik” not sure what that app is!
wow kik is like tinder? That has just shook me to my core!

Kik isn’t like tinder. You don’t match and stuff like you do on tinder. It’s more like Fb messenger if you want to compare it to other apps where you can talk to basically anybody and join chat groups.

If he has the app discord that is the same as Kik. I would check that also.

Kik again …odd I used that when I was 21 , single ready to mingle ! He is obviously looking for attention. No husband should be any form of social that’s aimed for single people or looking for ladies to chat with ! My husband is on Facebook and WhatsApp ! Please confront him calmly … there is this odd thing about some men withdrawing when a women is pregnant or the child is born !
i have noticed this withdrawn behavior! Why does this happen? Lack of sex?

Lack of attention , sex , feeling left out ! Men are like babies ! They like a lot of attention too ! When a baby comes , you have to balance your time and make sure he feels needed and wanted as well . This is no excuse but , I know so many women who have gone through this , including myself to an extent . If he feels bad about it , I’m sure you guys can work it out ! But he really needs to make it up to you because this isn’t on!

Discord is not the same as kik...discord is primarily a platform for people who game

Where they have sex group chats

Also kik is still around? I'm actually shocked that app still going 😂

Kik is a messaging app. It's not like tinder.