My husband is currently in El Paso for a class he is taking, it’s a month long class so I decided to come stay with family since I don’t have any family where we live. I am currently 7 months pregnant and we also have an almost 2 year old. My question is, is it ok for your husband to be out at a “restaurant” where girls are walking around in “booty shorts” half of their ass is out and just a bra (the place is called “Bikini Joes”). Mind you, he did not tell me he was going there.
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He should’ve communicated to you, my husband recently came home from a 4m “deployment” there and his buddies went there often it’s not the kind of scene a married man in my opinion should be at but I also have heard the girls aren’t interested in the men just their money 😬 it’s like a twin peaks or hooters kinda from what I was told, my husband would have his buddies bring him wings back when then went tho…

My husband is also in school to b a recruiter. I’m also with my family and I have a 1 year old and 2.5 year old. I’m not gonna lie I trip when he goes to Applebees not cause he’s out it’s cause he having more fun and I’m stuck with the kids 😂😂 they act like they are on vacation. An I’ve accidentally takin my husband to restaurant like that before I’d say as long as he don’t act a fool, then it would b fine to me but I would definitely talk to your husband about letting you know what he doing. My husband tells me what he is doing so I don’t go crazy

he went to twin peaks before he went there, my thing is, I asked him where he was and his response was “we came somewhere else to watch the fight” that’s what made me mad. I looked at his location & looked up the place & the first thing I see is girls in freaking bikinis. To me that’s not ok.

definitely not okay, they can watch the fight at the barracks…

the reason why I’m upset is because we used to live there and we never went to these places, now that’s he’s back he’s suddenly going to them, like cmon now. He could’ve at least told me where he was at.

that’s like my husband rn we are station at fort Polk and he normally a home body my husband rn is in Kentucky and he going out to bars n stuff I had to tell him to chill cause he ain’t acting like the dude I married. But yeah I would talk to your husband and set boundaries. Cause that’s hella rude that he doing that with out you he might as well go to a strip club. They both wear lingerie at those establishments.

And if he wanted to watch a fight I know they have actual bars without half naked women walking around. He could have pulled the fight up on his phone or some

exactly! I definitely need to talk to him about that because it’s not ok at all. I’m just super frustrated that he’s doing all this crap.

I would be so mad🤣🤣🤣🤣

feel free to message me, I’ve been there ❤️

Yes lol we go to hooters together

barracks or a restaurant 🤔 ain't no one tryna be at the barracks if they don't have too

my husband didn’t mind 😅 he would just go sit in a buddies room they’d have a few drinks play some cards and watch the game, no need for half naked women 🤷🏻♀️ everyone has different boundaries though. We sat on Ft a lot bc he missed me and our baby he didn’t wanna go out he just couldn’t wait to come home alot of the times

I mean he should of told you hey I'm eating at " " but maybe he didn't say cause you'd get upset ?? But he had his location on so he should of known you would find out which is dumb . In my opinion there's no issue a married man eating there unless you don't trust him the issue is why he didn't communicate where he was going to eat 🤦♀️

I have to ask what branch of barracks 🤣

I do trust him but like I said, I didn’t appreciate the fact that he didn’t let me know.

USMC he had a pretty nice room so he didn’t mind it his roommates were also his bsfs so that wasn’t a big deal they’re all kinda family so we’d all just sit on Ft and talk even play online games together, idk some guys just don’t like going out to bars and my husband is one of them ig

I personally wouldn't mind. I also don't mind if my husband watches porn or looks at other women. As long as he doesn't cross any lines by flirting or touching.
I mean, If there was a restaurant I could go to with hot men serving me with their shirts off, damn right I'd go! Lol!!!

@Trinity he got lucky with nice barracks because sis some of these barracks is straight trash 😭

you’re not wrong!! the barracks at fort stewart have black mold in them🤢

trust me I know before we got married my husband was in some questionable ones 😅

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