Why do women create profiles with random pics? Scenary, cartoon pics, quotes or flowers and then send waves? Or put posts up about wanting to meet up for playdates? You have not uploaded a pic of yourself so how do you expect other women to conversate, trust, befriend etc?
Thoughts ladies? I personally prefer to know who I am adding as a friend and talking to, looking at a pic of the sea and thinking oh thats so and so is abit weird!!
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Maybe they send photos privately? I dunno but I know a lot of women (I sure know I do) feel like from becoming a mother I’ve let myself go massively and put everything into my family - this is a safe space to become friends not tinder - I don’t personally think it matters what someone looks like to match on here - obviously before meeting someone Id be taking my children to meet id expect phone calls and video calls first just to ensure I’m not meeting a complete fake and someone dodgy but just to talk to with no personal details it doesn’t bother me!
I get what you mean but one of the terms of joining the app is to upload a pic of yourself. Yes its not tinder but at the same time you still want to know who is wanting to be friends.

I get your point of view but personally I’m happy to speak to them and I feel sorry for them if it really is the fact they feel not good enough anymore.. you do lose yourself sometimes after giving birth. It’s why I choose not to post pictures of my children on here because even with a picture showing - prove it’s them, it’s very easy to take any photo and claim it’s you