I need some advice please
So I record my LOs bottles and naps on the Huckleberry app, and my best friend makes fun of me for it because apparently her sisters never did for their kids (best friend doesn't have kids) problem is everytime I say something like 'well you don't have kids' she says things like 'no but my sisters do so I know what its like' I can't win with her coz she ALWAYS has to be right 🙄
What else can I say to her because it's really annoying that I feel judged every time I get my phone out to record a bottle or sleep 😪
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Sounds like she's not the nicest of friends! It's so different observing people with children than having them yourself! If it helps you do it (I did when mine was little). Just tell her you're not her sisters and you'll see what she's like when she has children x
No child, no opinion! Sorry! And anyway huckleberry is amazing I don’t care that I rely on an app, we’re busy mums our brains are muddled 🤣
I would laugh and just say "If" you have any kids you are going to be so screwed best read a few books and laugh some more.
I was humbled quickly after my son was born, and I do things now like TV time that I said I would never do.
I used to have a ‘best friend’ like this - I’ve massively distanced myself. She doesn’t have kids, and never wants them, but would constantly say things like ‘I don’t get why people with kids do this, or are like this’ etc. had so many opinions. It used to drive me mad. I have very close friends with no children who were always massively understanding, always asked about my baby, and never said any comments
She also asks me if I ever heard of letting a baby cry coz I get up to check/pick up when baby starts crying 🙃
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