Biggest decision of my life

Trust your gut. Don’t worry about what others will think. Others don’t have to be present for a baby like you do. I know people who have had abortions and look back and say it was the right thing for them to do at the time! Don’t feel shame. You’re still a wonderful mama no matter what you choose. ❤️

Do whatever is best for you and your family.💓 I definitely think there is hardships whatever route you go but decide which hardships you think you can handle better. Easier said than done obviously but give yourself a little time to relax and get where ever you need to be for whichever decision you make. I am very pro choice and believe that you just need to do what is best for you.

thank you!!!

Tbh, in my experience, two under two has been an easier transition than going from 0-1. My mental state is wayyyyy better than it was with my first. Now, we have 0 regrets with having two babies so close in age. They’re besties and it takes a mental load off of me to have the two of them play together.

And it sounds like your gut may be saying something different from your head…

No judgement. Just giving a new perspective from someone who is in it now!🫶🏻🤍

If you're going back and forth maybe there is a reason for your indecision and God has placed that in your heart. Abortions aren't the only path for women who feel they can't handle another pregnancy or baby. Have you looked into pregnancy centers in your area? They support mothers and families and are there to help. Keep praying on it ❤️

Literally was in the same situation and I ended up taking the pill , I am Christian and grew up in the church so truthfully hardest decision I ever made but I e believe he was for the good of the child

Your body miscarries when something isn't right with the situation to carry a child. It can be sad, but people are a lot better at not judging and accepting that. Your brain is also part of your body and you are allowed to decide if the situation is not right. People in our society have a really hard time respecting a woman's mind being allowed to decide what is best for her situation. Please do not be pressured by others into something that only you can decide.

I have had an abortion when the time wasn't right, and it was absolutely the best decision. It was what allowed me to be the kind of mother I have always wanted to be to the children I had when the situation was right.

The largest percentage of women who have abortions (60%) are women that are already mothers and do not want more children.

That being said, you are also allowed to change your mind. Again, it is your choice. Sending love and support 💓

First of all I am so sorry that you are dealing with such a painful situation. I am also, postpartum and it has been a struggle. I hope you are able to get the help you need, I go to group counseling that has other woman that are postpartum, it really helps knowing that you are not alone. I also go to counseling. I am sharing that because that’s what has helped me mentally, I know I am not you, but I hope that helps. I also, strongly believe that it’s the gentle nudge of the Holy Spirit why you are debating whether or not to keep the baby. Also, there are a lot of programs out there to help you go through pregnancy while having postpartum to help you cope in a healthier manner. If you don’t want to keep the child once you give birth you can also give the baby up for adoption. That all being said it is fully your decision, I am not one to judge, just wanted you to know there are several options to go about this situation. I hope this helps

I'm sorry to hear you're having a hard time with this situation. I am almost 8 months Postpartum so I understand how terrifying it must be. I believe God knows what's best and it is sometimes not what we think we need. You guys must be wonderful parents if God has blessed you with another baby. I hope you make the best decision for you and your family. Sending you lots of love