in May 2022 Babies 🇬🇧

I posted in here the other day about leaving my partner

I’m just really scared to do so as I have tried to leave in the past and he’s blew my phone up with phone calls and messages. The HV is aware of everything and so are the police, as I’ve had them around before asking if i could get moved quicker with their help. I’m more scared of what he may do or say. I don’t want anything to do with him. Yeah I want my daughter to see her dad but even atm she doesn’t want to crawl to him? He’s not physically abusive it’s coercive control and manipulation, just mentally and emotionally abusive. It’s really affecting my mental health and I can’t sleep or eat and my anxiety is through the roof so much that I can’t leave the house so it’s awful for my daughter because I can’t leave the house with my toddler and give her the life she deserves even by going for a walk as I’m just mentally drained and exhausted😭😭 no matter where I go he’ll cause chaos. Tell me there’s an end to this because if I didn’t have my daughter I’d definitely not be here by now😭 she’s my reason for everything!!

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Sorry you're going through this. Try calling women's aid or they also have live chat on their website. See if they can point you in the right direction to make a plan to leave x

Please message me xx

@Hollie I will later when he’s not around. Not really allowed to message anyone as he thinks it’s a “boyfriend” 🙄

Hey hun, sorry to hear your going through this.. Hope your okay. Try and connect with your local domestic abuse services.. I'm sure someone from the team can help and advise you on next steps. X

Ok I have been in similar situation and have answers for you xx

Women’s aid can provide a lot of support Coercive control is the worse kind of abuse as it’s so hard to spot so weldone for seeing it DA almost always escalated so when the time is right and you have the support in place her out xx

Hey. If you want to message I'm here. I have literally this passed week to him to leave and in the same situation with police and being scared to leave the house. Its so lonely and hard. I'm currently trying to cheer myself up by watching mama mia 2 xx

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