So anxious

I’m feeling so anxious and sad after my scan on Friday. (I posted anonymously about there being no fetal pole at 6+4 (LMP) or 6 weeks (ovulation.))I’m trying so hard to stay positive and have heard so many positive stories but I feel like all the excitement and joy has been taken away. I’m so overwhelmed with it. I had a chemical pregnancy in August and just can’t bear the thought of two losses in a row.

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Sending lots of love. They couldn’t find one on mine at 5+6 and told me not to come back until I was 7 weeks at least because often they can’t see the heartbeat until then. Every day counts in this early stage in terms of growth. Xxx

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Sending you all the love and positive vibes xxxx

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Same at mine but they say they think I am smaller than 6w. Go again at 7. Maybe there was a fetal pole but it needs a great sonogeapher to see a 2mm one for example.

Go and do another one. Inwas thinking to get a HCg again to help while the wait as it killing me too

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I know you'll be really anxious, I was too for the last couple of weeks. I went for an early scan thinking I was 6+3 and all the sonographer could see was a small sac and said it was too small to measure / see anything and that I was probably only just 5 weeks. I then spent two weeks worrying that it had just stopped growing. I went for another scan on Wednesday and straight away we saw it, got a great picture, and even got to see and hear a nice strong heartbeat! And I measured 7+3. Try not to worry too much, I know it's hard but take care of yourself! X

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Thank you for sharing this ❤️

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Sending you so much love x

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I think it's quite common so early on to be honest. This is why most places, even private, don't offer scans before 7 weeks because it's so hard to see anything that early. Fingers crossed it's just too early and you'll have a positive scan with heartbeat soon. 💕

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