Depending on ur state, they will have him pay back child support as well..
@Jamicka (Zion's Mom) it’s so frustrating i want to blow a gasket
That’s just men for u. Extremely selfish beings and all about them and their own wants and needs. Stop loaning him money tho u hv a child to support there is absolutely no reason to do that.
@incognito I completely understand.. It's a headache in itself..
It will work out..
@Oge yeah im not i have to be tough with him cause when it comes to me as the mother he does not give a rats ass . Tuh i gotta look out for my son and i .
Amen to that.. I don't get help from my son's dad either.. Maybe 10%..
Girl we are literally in the same boat.. But arguing and fussing will not help anything, trust me.. I can tell u this, make sure u document anything he gives you.. Every little thing.. If he's on the birth certificate, or if he's not, get him in there so u can do child support.. This is the only way to get what u need and don't have to deal with him.. This will be ur best option, sometime dad's will continue to say they will help, and only help when it's convenient for them and not the child..