Anxiety is really bad

It'll be a week tomorrow since my positive test and it's felt like the longest week in the world. I've had two chemical miscarriages in the fourth week before and another at 6/7 weeks. Now I just feel so nervous, every time I go to the loo I'm worried there will be blood, I freak out at every twinge or sensation. No idea if or when I'll start to feel more positive about things. I worry about getting my hopes up too much ...

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I wish I had a magic cure for your anxiety 🙁 it really is the worst. Just know you’re not alone Xx

Hey! I’m feeling very anxious too. I’m experiencing cramps and some spotting. Are you able to book an early scan? Just for some reassurance for yourself? I’m going to book one for end of October (ages away) because I can’t wait to the 12 week mark!

I will book an early scan soon, I've been holding off because last time I miscarried 3 days before my scan .. feeling so superstitious. Glad to hear i'm not alone though

Sorry to hear you're struggling. Like the others did, you're not alone. I'm the sort of person to convince myself I have a brain tumour if I have lots of headaches so all the new sensations are threatening to make me crazy! I wonder if it's a case of distracting yourself enough that you can get on with your day? 🩷

This is absolutely completely normal and I promise you it does get better with time. It doesn't ever go, but it does get better. I was the same and didn't really relax into my pregnancy until 20 weeks. Sending love ❤️

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