Why does my husband not understand I hate it when he drinks everyday. He's an absolute asshole when he drinks. And then he gets mad when I don't want to have sex. Bring an asshole and being drunk does not turn me on π he hasn't eaten dinner in 4 nights. And it upsets me that I made a really good roast for the first time and I basically wasted money cooking that for him. I tell him this and all he says is give me head. Nahhh I don't like limp noodle
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Learn more about our guidelines.Only time he wants to do anything with me is whatever he wants to do or his friends want. Never what I want to do
If i want to go to the bar and shoot pool. It's a no. But if his friends want to go to the bar, he's all for it
He hasn't eaten because he's staying drunk

I sorry you are going through this, but it's sounds like he is a boy, not a man, yet.

You might consider finding a way to get some help for him and inter vention regarding his drinking. If it really is hindering your life and dynamic, find a safe way to inform him and try to get help. Just some thoughts. Alcoholism affects the mind and all other areas. He may not have a way to help himself without help from others first. There are support groups and options and lots of treatment places to help him.