My feelings are hurt

There’s been lack of communication, very often lately between me and my man. I’m just over it though, I’m upset because some things just don’t make sense. He’s out of town right now, we’ll I think he’s still gone. I don’t know when he will be back but he’s barely been saying anything to me. I understand if he’s unable to call if he’s busy but he’s hardly been texting me. I didn’t even know he was leaving until he texted me late as hell the other night, about 4am telling me that he’s heading out of town. That bothered me because I had no clue he was leaving but I left it alone. I know he said earlier that day he was mad at me because he wanted to see me but I already had plans with my family. I didn’t even knw where he was going. Yesterday he asked what I was up to , so of course I asked what he was doing as well and that’s when he told me where he was. I told him I didn’t ask that. But ok fine at least he’s finally said where he is. Regardless of that though. I just hate that he hasn’t been saying much to me, that isn’t him. And I’m trying not to be petty or unreasonable but I’m ready to just keep my distance and either be done or just stay to myself for a while. Meaning I won’t even be communicating, I honestly didn’t want to reply to him yesterday since the day before he didn’t txt me until late at night and then stopped. But I was glad to hear from him just for him to stop txtn again. Same thing last night no reply . And haven’t heard from him yet today. Now if it was me, he would’ve made an issue about it. Am I wrong for thinking about stopping communicating for a min, or even just being done with him?
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Nah, be done. Huge red flags. Sounds like he's cheating tbh

@Timi I would hope not though. I just don’t understand why he wouldn’t tell me he was leaving until literally the moment he was.

@Timi but with me not hearing from him much that is one of the last few things that definitely crossed my mind. I just dnt want to leave anybody and hurt their feelings but I’m quick to gtfo honestly. Everything has been good up until now when he left. Only time we butt heads is during my pregnancy when we lost our child, so that’s another reason I’m trying to make some understanding of what’s going on but Nth is giving me reason to, not with him pulling that nonsense

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