Things I did on my journey

I thought I would share some of the things I did while TTC after my mc. I know it’s so hard to hear someone’s positive story while still trying. I thought maybe sharing more about what I did might help.

Vitamins
One a Day Prenatal Advanced
Besibest Ubiquinol CoQ10 600mg softgel
B-complex
Magnesium Glycinate (pm)

Ovulation tracking
I made an investment in the Mira analyzer with the Mira Max wands for two months. This gives you a read out daily of LH, progesterone and estrogen so your fertile window is CLEAR and you get data you can talk to your doctor about. Seriously took the stress out of guessing line darkness - you see the actual quantity of LH so your baseline and peak are clear.

Hobbies! I set myself a new goal. I dance informally at a studio where I live and I actually auditioned for and was accepted into an art/dance performance. I choreographed my own dance and created the character and costume. I put my creative energy in and immersed myself in the community. It truly helped me relax on the whole baby making thing. And a community that ISNT always talking about fertility etc helped.

On the same note, I deleted this app for a while. I couldn’t keep looking at the huge variety of posts, the struggles, the loss, the hope. I know that sounds crappy but I know myself and I had to take a break.

Weirdly enough - I went back on my adhd meds. It caused me a lot of stress and anxiety when not on them - like debilitating negative self talk and panic attacks. The month I went back on is the month I got pregnant.

Please let me know if you want to talk or have questions.

Sending joy and baby dust to everyone!

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Oh also I forgot I used this and we got pregnant the same month! Not sure if this is WHY but it’s worth telling everyone about

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Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

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Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.

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Is it normal to test positive still? (Wouldn't usually do one)

Not the best pic and clearer in person. Is this normal? I've not had any sex since having my LO but I've had strong cravings, sense of smell is strong and my hair still hasnt started to fall out. Im 7 weeks pp so 🤷‍♀️ I wouldnt normally bother testing but with those symptoms that I never really have its like whats going on. Cravings for something very specific too and can only get from KFC now 😩 so its annoying

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Can baby mamas be friends?

My son has an older brother from his biodad. Biodad has never had contact with my son. One thing lead to another though and the other child's mother and I got in contact and are planning a meeting for the boys. Biodad has no idea any of this has happened. Biodad also hasnt had contact with the other child in about 2 years. Just thoughts, opinions, anyone been through something similar?
Edit-Thank you all! Have definitely been feeling somewhat weird about it because we never met before but now know it can be a good thing definitely helps. I can't wait for them to meet. My son has been asking for a brother and I can now happily tell him he has one. That just happens to be 13. Im sorry for yall that fight/have issues with the other baby mamas. Sadly some women rather be stuck on the men, when the kid is the one who really matters. They're the ones that end up getting hurt and missing out.

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Ovulation test

Please please someone clarify if this test is positive. Im pretty sure it is but Im in disbelief at the minute I haven’t ovulated in 8 months. I feel like crying lol. When is the best time to have sex?

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Ovulation test

I know this group is for pregnancy test but just want to double check this ovulation test is positive. I haven’t had a positive ovulation test in months and months I think Im gonna cry. When is best to have sex after a positive ovulation test and how likely is it to get pregnant?

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