Pregnant & Single

Hey all, I really would love some support or guidance.. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. I am now 11 weeks pregnant and my bf and I broke up.. We are constantly arguing, and he treats me so terrible at times. He decided to pack his stuff and leave me. Now that we aren’t together I am so sad and regretful about the pregnancy. I always wanted to be a mom, but not a single mom 😢. I’m so sad, confused and regretful. Has anyone gone through this? I’m not sure what to do. I’m scared of abortion, especially this far in the pregnancy, but also scared going through this alone.

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I'm here if u ever wonna talk I'm know the pain 😔 x

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I'm here if you wanna talk or need a shoulder. I'm a single mom of two. SA at 15(my son) and another pos told me when I was 21 that he loved me and wanted a life with me soon as that test was positive he ran off(my daughter) yea I was scared raising my kids alone but I've been doing it for 10 years and it's amazing having little being that challenge me daily but also love and support me ❤️

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Maybe you and your bf can talk it out in the long run about things or if you can just wait and let things cool off explain to him how he made you feel and that a child needs both their parents in this cruel world it can be. Best of luck and a baby is a blessing and nothing short of a miracle. Stay strong xx

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I’m in the same situation as you! I wanted to abort her but I’m so glad I didn’t just because of the situation don’t let him take away the beautiful experience you are going to have. Message me if you want to talk 🩷

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Good evening my dear, I am so sorry to hear that. I want to encourage you and pray with you. Children are a gift from God. Congratulations to you. God has bless you with this pregnancy and He will help you to look after it. You are never alone all you need it talk with God for guidance and direction on how to do it all. Helper will come for you. Don't be scared speak to your baby positive word like I love you and I can't wait to hold you in my arm, you are the best gift and I can't wait to spend time with you and be the best mum you. Talk to yourself as well that you are going to be the best mum to your child. Father in Jesus name I pray with your daughter tonight you are God that comfort us in difficult times I ask Lord that keep watch over her and give her the strength that she need throughout her pregnancy and give her joy and peace always. Father God ask that you will send her right people that will help her and she doesn't feel alone. In Jesus Christ name I pray. Amen it's well ❤️❤️

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Hey babe, I went through the same thing. I felt so alone and thought me getting pregnant by my BD was the worst decision in my life and I’m not even going to lie I even considered aborting. I didn’t want my baby growing up in a broken family like I did. All I can say is at the end is going to be all worth it. All that pain you going to have is going to go away when you little one is here 🤍 stay strong love

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It's going to be okay, you still have options. As a single mom you will find you are stronger than you could have ever imagined.
There are a lot of resources out there like WIC and state funded Healthcare, food, and daycare programs. Just being pregnant you can apply to WIC now.
If you still are not sure about being a parent to the little one you could talk with an adoption agency and see if that is a path you might prefer. I know from experience there are a lot of people out there who can't get pregnant and would love help becoming a parent.

There are also a lot of mama's on this app that have been where your standing and can attest that it may look scary and be overwhelming right now but we wouldent trade our kids for the world. I'm not gonna lie it is hard but take a beat and think about what you want. Don't listen to everyone's opinion on what is right for you. Only you can pick the right path for yourself based on you position in life right now and your beliefs.

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