I been with my spouse for 10 years since high school and the day my child was suppose to be conceived I found out he was cheating on me with my sister I’m in a mind space of feeling like I wasted so many years with this person I can’t believe he did this 2 me. We never really argue I’m still in a state of shock right now I feel like I’m in the middle and I don’t know if I could ever get over this
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With your sister!!! Omgg I’m so sorry you are going through, shame on both of them, you definitely do not deserve that, am personally I don’t think I could ever forgive either one of them

Exactly what that other commenter said your sister ????? I don’t think there is a way to forgive that, if I was in your shoes I’d divorce him cut contact with your sister and let them be miserable together while you level up and be the parent your son needs. Something that made me leave my sons father was hearing a coworker say “is this something you want your child to think is okay because their parents are doing it”. Bless you and your baby I truly can’t imagine being in that situation
Would never million years think my sister would do this I took her in because she was going through a lot and now she just ruin my family less then 3 months

Shitty people belong together. I’m actually so gutted for you ☹️

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. So disgusting by both of them.
You deserve better than this lovely xx sending you love and hugs 🤗 x
I’m really sorry and hope u will find a away to move on …

I am so sorry to hear that, very sad. I want to encourage you that it's well with you. Just to say that forgiveness is important for you to enjoy your life please forgive both of them, that is what my Bible says. The question you want to ask yourself is do you want to continue in that relationship I know 10 year is a long time but your peace of mind. Let God guide you through this situation. I pray that God will comfort your heart right now and give you peace to make right decision. God bless you and keep your home. Amen

Wow that is so sad, you took her in and she did this too you 😞 praying for you honey and hope you find a way to heal and move on from this 🙏 sending you so much love
Thank you guys I’m trying my best to keep it together and it hurts so much because I still love this man and deep down I know I can’t forgive this

Honey, you know that you deserve so much better than this.

I wouldn’t be able to forgive either of them, at least not for years if ever.. and I’d never forget! 🤬
That’s just awful! It’s got my stomach twisting just reading it! Are they even remorseful?
I am so sorry you’re going through this! 💔😔
They both apologized and they both were drinking and high which led her to give him oral mean while I’m at work 9 month pregnant and during that time she kept saying she wanted to leave and move out but I couldn’t understand I told her I didn’t want her to leave because I knew she would go back to her ex boyfriend who was abusive to her
Mean while it’s because she felt guilty for doing what she did I guess

Yes she was feeling guilty, intoxication is never an excuse to give head to your sisters baby daddy. There will never be a time that is okay for reference I had to talk my sister down from not murdering my sons father. It is never okay especially when your pregnant it’s like more disrespectful
I don’t even know where to begin me and my spouse have everything together

That’s totally understandable I’m sure your really reeling at that revelation. The main thing to know is it will end up being okay even if everything seems really disastrous at the moment. We all here got you

Lawyer up*
Choose yourself and your happiness*