So it dosent happen very often but my partner will just randomly say he’s going to the pub or for a few drinks no prior plans and yesterday he said to me he’s going to see his friend for abit for a few drinks this was about 4pm and it got to about 7pm so I asked when he would be home he kept saying idk it then got to about 9-10 and still not home so I asked again and he says he’s gonna be out late which to me is maybe 11-12 but it’s now 4am and he’s still not home and I haven’t heard from him in hours. I just don’t think it’s very respectful to me to say one thing and then be out at 4am still how would everyone go about talking to him when he’s back home.
Just to add I know his last location which was a club I also don’t think it’s very respectful to be going to a club when in a relationship I don’t mind him going out to a pub or bar but a club setting just dosent sit right with me let me know your options plz
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Don't let him get comfortable doing that shit. Cuz he wouldn't like it if you did it. Reverse the tables on him n see what his reaction is. Cuz I did that and he flipped out!!!! But come to find out hes been having a relationship for the past few months behind my back.... we let them slide once they gonna run with that shiit