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Has anyone else noticed people on here asking for advice then refusing to take it?! I feel like I’ve gone out of my way trying to offer support to a Mum on here. She seemed adamant that she’s pregnant despite numerous posted negative tests and only being a few weeks post partum. I’ve genuinely been concerned and tried to explain that maybe her body hasn’t adjusted yet to having periods again after giving birth yet I kept seeing post after post after post of her asking the same questions, with more negative tests a week or so after the first ones! It seems like she’s going to carry on asking the same question until someone gives her the answer she actually wants! Anyway my efforts to help have gone unheard and I’ve been blocked šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ FFS man, I just don’t get some people.

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I find the most annoying is when someone posts literal proof their partner is cheating, horrid and a crap dad, then when women comment giving them support, saying they should leave it’s always ā€˜yeah but he treats me nice sometimes! You don’t know our relationship’ šŸ˜­šŸ˜‚ ok girl

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This could be a symptom of ppd or related mental struggles since having her baby.


But yea, some people don’t want help haha

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exactly!!! She is literally 7 weeks post partum and been saying she had ā€˜implantation bleeding’ a fortnight ago, said no period since august (it was actually when she gave birth) and then stated she is due on her period in a few days. Like how do you know that if you haven’t had one since august? I’m genuinely worried that she isn’t well and tried to explain that sensitively but got blocked for my efforts. I just hope nothing bad happens,she has a horrible husband too but then deleted that post when people suggested she get out! Like what?!

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yeah!!! Again…ask-holes šŸ˜‚

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Yep, if your opinion doesn’t validate what they’re feeling they argue with you or try and get you to see their side of things. I’m sick of it tbh šŸ™ƒ

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oh dear šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø definitely doesn’t sound well, but you did what you could! Tbh I’d have probably blocked her because I’m petty, but she saved you the effort🤣

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I found myself checking in on her daily looking at her profile for updates on the situation to see how she was but every day was just more of the same post in different groups! So I finally commented again and said maybe she isn’t well and I felt like she was asking the same question until she got the answer she wanted and now I’m blocked. Like I’m not heartbroken or anything šŸ˜‚ but I just don’t get why you ask if you don’t wanna hear the honest answer šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

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Omg it was the same picture everytime aswell! She blocked me for actually sticking up for her against others too. Soo strange šŸ™„

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Is she in this group? I feel like I wanna find it

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she’s not a first time mum so I doubt it. That’s my point aswell, she’s had babies twice before and is asking questions that a woman who has had babies would actually know. When she’s told an answer she just won’t have it šŸ˜‚ like no that’s not implantation bleeding one day after your unprotected sex šŸ˜‚

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honestly the whole thing baffles me!! The thing about her husband reporting her to CPS aswell and then deleting it when people tried to be supportive! Like I’m not putting her name on here obviously but those who saw what went on know exactly what I’m talking about

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I think everyone who has seen the posts are baffled, I believe she is not okay tbh I hope she gets the help!

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yeah I really don’t think she’s a well woman and doesn’t sound like she has support at all around her, but when we tried to offer it we got blocked sooo šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø the story kept changing too, her last period was 11th august (she would 100% be positive by now!!) but with a 7-8 week old baby that’s not a period,that’s when she gave birth!

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omg seriously šŸ˜’ then they get mad when u give honest advice

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I’m not gonna lie, a lot of people post things for ā€œadviceā€ but it’s just for validation in what they’re doing for example. That’s just from what I’ve seen, anyway. It gets really boring very quickly

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the post about her husband reporting her to CPS is still there… as is a post about her MIL slapping her child across the face (which apparently isn’t the first time she’s hit one of her kids) 🤯 quite worried for her at this point, I really hope she gets help

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oh I must have been blocked from the husband post then. Like there was a post about going to the doctors for a proper test which surely would have given some clarification on a firm yes or no to pregnancy, yet when I checked back there was no update. So she was clearly told it’s negative! Haven’t seen the MIL post as that would have been after I was blocked. I’d just kinda like to know what happens with it all and if she’s ok tbh!

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@Katrina ooooh I saw that post. That was super weird

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