Has anyone else noticed people on here asking for advice then refusing to take it?! I feel like Iāve gone out of my way trying to offer support to a Mum on here. She seemed adamant that sheās pregnant despite numerous posted negative tests and only being a few weeks post partum. Iāve genuinely been concerned and tried to explain that maybe her body hasnāt adjusted yet to having periods again after giving birth yet I kept seeing post after post after post of her asking the same questions, with more negative tests a week or so after the first ones! It seems like sheās going to carry on asking the same question until someone gives her the answer she actually wants! Anyway my efforts to help have gone unheard and Iāve been blocked šš¤£ FFS man, I just donāt get some people.
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I find the most annoying is when someone posts literal proof their partner is cheating, horrid and a crap dad, then when women comment giving them support, saying they should leave itās always āyeah but he treats me nice sometimes! You donāt know our relationshipā šš ok girl

This could be a symptom of ppd or related mental struggles since having her baby.
But yea, some people donāt want help haha

exactly!!! She is literally 7 weeks post partum and been saying she had āimplantation bleedingā a fortnight ago, said no period since august (it was actually when she gave birth) and then stated she is due on her period in a few days. Like how do you know that if you havenāt had one since august? Iām genuinely worried that she isnāt well and tried to explain that sensitively but got blocked for my efforts. I just hope nothing bad happens,she has a horrible husband too but then deleted that post when people suggested she get out! Like what?!

yeah!!! Againā¦ask-holes š

Yep, if your opinion doesnāt validate what theyāre feeling they argue with you or try and get you to see their side of things. Iām sick of it tbh š

oh dear š¤¦š¼āāļøš¤¦š¼āāļø definitely doesnāt sound well, but you did what you could! Tbh Iād have probably blocked her because Iām petty, but she saved you the effortš¤£

I found myself checking in on her daily looking at her profile for updates on the situation to see how she was but every day was just more of the same post in different groups! So I finally commented again and said maybe she isnāt well and I felt like she was asking the same question until she got the answer she wanted and now Iām blocked. Like Iām not heartbroken or anything š but I just donāt get why you ask if you donāt wanna hear the honest answer š¤¦š¼āāļøš¤·š¼āāļø

Omg it was the same picture everytime aswell! She blocked me for actually sticking up for her against others too. Soo strange š

Is she in this group? I feel like I wanna find it

sheās not a first time mum so I doubt it. Thatās my point aswell, sheās had babies twice before and is asking questions that a woman who has had babies would actually know. When sheās told an answer she just wonāt have it š like no thatās not implantation bleeding one day after your unprotected sex š

honestly the whole thing baffles me!! The thing about her husband reporting her to CPS aswell and then deleting it when people tried to be supportive! Like Iām not putting her name on here obviously but those who saw what went on know exactly what Iām talking about

I think everyone who has seen the posts are baffled, I believe she is not okay tbh I hope she gets the help!

yeah I really donāt think sheās a well woman and doesnāt sound like she has support at all around her, but when we tried to offer it we got blocked sooo š¤·š¼āāļø the story kept changing too, her last period was 11th august (she would 100% be positive by now!!) but with a 7-8 week old baby thatās not a period,thatās when she gave birth!

omg seriously š then they get mad when u give honest advice

Iām not gonna lie, a lot of people post things for āadviceā but itās just for validation in what theyāre doing for example. Thatās just from what Iāve seen, anyway. It gets really boring very quickly

the post about her husband reporting her to CPS is still there⦠as is a post about her MIL slapping her child across the face (which apparently isnāt the first time sheās hit one of her kids) 𤯠quite worried for her at this point, I really hope she gets help

oh I must have been blocked from the husband post then. Like there was a post about going to the doctors for a proper test which surely would have given some clarification on a firm yes or no to pregnancy, yet when I checked back there was no update. So she was clearly told itās negative! Havenāt seen the MIL post as that would have been after I was blocked. Iād just kinda like to know what happens with it all and if sheās ok tbh!

@Katrina ooooh I saw that post. That was super weird