My lo has cancer and I have to go to the hospital multiple times a week

My little one has leukemia. She’s doing great tho , but my in laws NEVER come to the hospital to visit her , they never volunteer to attend a bday party or babysit,. That shit really pisses me off because my parents are always doing things, taking her into the city for her appointments when me or my husband can’t. I’m just like I don’t get it???

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That’s fucked up

If they couldn’t support my child in a time of need like this they would NEVER see him. Not having time or always being busy is an excuse especially when it comes to their sick grandchild. You can’t make people love your child though rather they are family or not, it’s sad. You and your baby will be in my prayers 🫶🏾

So sad. I would def ignore them if they want to visit when your LO is not in the hospital

I would no longer give them the time of day period

Im sorry hun
They dont sound like great ppl
What does your husban say..about his parents and the way they are acting

Thats cruel and fkd up
But they are who they are and you cant change them
My eldest sister wants nothing to do with my son
I have 2 sisters one who knows everything about him( my middle sis) and my eldest knows shit about him
My point being you have no control over them and what they will or wont do
Fk em concentrate on who is supportive * your family* your friends
My dad has stage 4 cancer and just like my son
She cldnt give a flying fk
What mum and i are going through
He just today lets call it got confused and is not all there
Coz he just ..i dont know
Doesnt understand anything he is 84
Pumped full of medz
I had to tell mum to leave and i had to clam him down i did not call her,its a total waste of fkn time,i wlda called my other sister but i managed to clam and manage the situation
If you wanna chat im a message away

I want so desperately to just say fuck them but my husband is soo close to his family. They call him like every freaking hour! ( I swear I’m not being dramatic either)

in our community

5 months today🥺

where has the time gone!!!

Can you see anything? I’m 12 DPO 🙏

My own opinion is that this is inconclusive (can maybe see a vvvfl but could also be an indent too hard to tell) but curious what others see

C - section

Hello lovelies, I’m getting closer to my date of c section.

Can I ask how it all went for you? I felt prepared and now I have this awful feeling what if I bleed out! I’m sure that’s not the case. But I just wondered how it went, and how the aftermath was. I have seen on social media people say it’s horrendous but then I speak to friends and family and they’re like yeah it’s not easy but you can cope! You can walk, etc. I think it’s the unknown… lol!

Also were you all sick during your procedure and did you all get terrible trapped gas? If so what tips do you have xx

Best way to be induced??

I just found out I may need to be induced early due to preeclampsia and having a generally bigger baby which of the ways to be induced do y’all recommended?

This is a bit strange.. but hear me out

I am 36 weeks and 4 days today.
I had that feeling, you know when you are trying to take a tampon out on your end of period and it kind of hurts because the tampon is dry? I had that sensation today?

Now I feel like I have to push something about my vagina? It kinda tickles but uncomfortable. I’m not having any pains at all anywhere btw so can’t be baby ??

cheating dream

i need advice but PLS DON'T JUDGE!!!
last night i had a dream, i always used to dream my partner cheating on me with my friends, or being super mean, but since we had our baby those dreams disappeared. for context, we haven't been able to have sex yet, I'm 12 weeks pp, and my pelvic floor is so tense, and it's awful.
last night i had a VERY weird dream, it was so realistic, and different from others, he handed me his phone, and ask me to help him handle this girl, like annoyed? in the chat this girl was super obsessive, and messaged him a lot before he replied. she asked him to sing a song to her, and he sent her a voice message singing it, and other voice messages i couldn't listen in the dream. i wrote her to stop, and she was angry, telling me he started it. then i confronted him about this (still in the dream) and he changed his attitude, he seemed so guilty and said to me he had deleted some messages. i don't remember much else, but i woke up with the URGE of checking his insta messages. we've been together for 5 years, and I've never checked his phone, and neither has he (that i know if, at least) and contained myself, but I'm still very much concerned about it. it felt like an epiphany, a revelation or smth like that. I know people might think I'm overreacting but i can't get it out of my head, it was so specific.
i though about asking him to show me, but i know he'll be bothered that i don't trust him (i would be too in his place), but if he's cheating he would say that to make me feel bad. also i thought about checking his phone in his sleep, and then ask him to see his reaction, but feel so bad, i wouldn't like if he went through my phone without asking, even tho I have nothing to hide.
please, be kind!!