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My BD got caught up last night living a double life

So, apparently my BD has been living a double life for only God knows how long. A women's intuition never lies because I suspected it but I just wasn't sure & didn't know all the details of everything.

He's been in between 2 women for months now: Me & another girl. I knew something was up cuz he kept mentioning how he really wanted a poly relationship and how he wanted to have 2 wives. He kept saying how as long as he had me & another girl, he would always be satisfied. & I kept telling him straight up, I'm NOT into that & it's either gonna be me or else I don't wanna be involved.

He came over last night to visit. Prior to that, I called him & he took 5 hours to respond. I knew that was fishy but i didn't say nothing. He mentioned that he wanted to step outside to go smoke a blunt and he would be right back. Well, once he left, I decided to step out too to go finish my blunt & before I could open the side door to step outside, I heard him on the phone with some girl.

So of course, I stopped to listen lol Apparently, he was with her prior to coming to my house which makes sense why he took 5 hours to respond. She asked him where was he at & he lied and said he was with his boy. They continued to talk some more & he told her that he was leaving soon and he would see her shortly. Before they hung up, she said "I love you" & he said it back with such passion. It honestly broke my heart. I just went back upstairs and waited for him to come back up.

I asked him, Do you have a girlfriend? Of course he lied & I told him, stop lying. I literally just heard your whole conversation you just had with that girl. He was sooo shocked. Long story short, he has been dating this girl for damn near a year. He expressed how he loves both of us & basically wanted to have us both. I told him he's out of his mind if he thinks that he's gonna mess with both of us at the same time.

He said that I'm the mother of his child and he's always gonna have deep feelings for me and says that no matter who he gets with, he'll probably always cheat on them with me. SMH. I was disgusted.

I told him me and him are DONE. He can go be with her but he's NOT gonna keep living a double life. I told him he needs to stop lying to that girl and be honest with her. I expressed how I never want to see another women hurt & I feel bad that she's been caught in the middle between this BS between me & him.

I've been crying on & off all day. It hurt to hear him tell another woman that he loves her when he barely even said that to me. It's been a rough day yall..I just needed to vent & get this off my chest. Sorry for the long post💔