I’m currently 28 weeks pregnant but like to have a plan ahead of time. Me and baby’s dad are currently not together and he says one day he wants to be involved then the next he doesn’t want to be there at all or see his son. I’ve offered when baby is a couple months old to go out to the park or for food just for a couple hours so they can have that bonding time. He is now saying he doesn’t want any contact and is saying to take it through court. I’ve explained to him that court can get nasty and I’d rather just come to an agreement ourselves for the sake of our son but don’t know if I’m pushing it to much
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Don’t push it, you’ve given him the option and there’s only so much you can do.
Please do everything via text message so you have all evidence so he can’t twist anything on you x

You’re not being unreasonable. Sounds like he is. I understand wanting to avoid court tho… good luck with everything

As shit as it is got through CMS and don’t let him back in your sons life. He can’t drop him and pick back up when he wants, your child needs consistency!