Baby #2

SOMEONE please explain this to me. You had baby #1. And you're planning to have another!!! HOW? WHY? OMMMMMMGGG y'all i CANNOT even invision doing this all over again. How are moms of multiples doing this? How did mothers from older generations have six or more? Not rhetorical. Really...HOOOOOOW? i dont get it!

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I have 2 under 2 and thought it was going to be hard but honestly it was like a walk in the park compared to my first

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I wanted another one but everyone told me it was hormones. Yes, yes it was! Dear god.

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Honestly, you just do it and learn to adapt. My oldest was 10 when my middle was born. So I basically started over. Then when he turned 1 we decided to have just one more. Well one turned to two and then I had a 12 year old, an almost 2 year old and newborn twins. 3 under 2 was insane but we made it work. I accepted (and still do) any help I could get. I wake up each morning and start with one and move down the line. I also EBF my twins so I have to work everything around that schedule. They are all fun though.

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Im going to be a mom of 2 under 2 😂 tbh the second baby was a surprise baby! I was breastfeeding at the time and hadnt gotten my period, had an odd bleed for a day or 2 but thought it was my period coming back. If I wasnt pregnant right now, i probably would have waited maybe 5-6 years to have another 😂

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My daughter is 7 months old and I’m 14 weeks pregnant 🤣 I had these thoughts before getting pregnant and then I was absolutely mortified at first now I’m just sooo freaking excited. Truthfully though most people have like a dream job and mine has been to be a mom so I’m living my dream but I get my life is not for everyone I just really enjoy every ounce of motherhood even the hard days !

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I have two under two and I think it would be 100% worse to wait and start over. Plus it'll be more difficult to foster a relationship between the kids with an age gap. My cousins (siblings) are 6+ years apart the second oldest practically raised the three younger. The oldest (who is 7+ years older) didn't have much of a relationship until recently (they are all adults now). I watch my two under two entertain each other a lot and know I made the right decision.

Plus there is a 23m gap between me and my older brother and an 18m gap between me and my younger brother. We have a fairly close relationship and shared a big portion of our friend group. Infact I married one of my older brothers friends and he married one of mine. (Neither of us started dating them until in college 🤣).

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I have a 14 year old 3 year old and 3 week old!! However my family is 100% complete and definitely no more from me!! X

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2nd baby has been so much easier! The hard newborn stage flew by in comparison to my first (who’s 4 now). I’ve been shocked how easier it’s been so far!

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I've got 5 and wouldn't trade em for the world!!!!

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Dola the app said she said see faint faint line I can’t

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Negative at 8dpo

Has anyone had a negative at 8dpo and ended up pregnant after?

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Sadly Desperate

I’ve been a step mom for over 6 years now and it seems like this year it has all went to hell. My relationship with my step kids, my feelings as a stepmom and everything else in general. I love my husband and he supports me every way he can I just don’t have anyone else in my situation that can help or understands what I’m going through. If anyone is willing to listen or just give their thoughts I would greatly appreciate it 💜

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Anyone had a super early postive ?

Hi am i seeing things ? It's only 6 dpo. I had a chemical pregnancy start of February then a period then a positive ovulation strip a week ago Could this be the left over after the chemical ? It just seems so early. This is an early detection test. This came up within 2 minutes of dipping and it says to wait 3 minutes. I've taken two after that arnt as early detection but still what I think are faint positives ? All appeared withing the recommended time frames xxx

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At 8DPO negative test result

At 8 DPO not even a faint line , a straight negative test . So does that means it’s a no pregnancy for me this month . Or there are future chances for hcg to rise

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Chemical pregnancy or too early ?

I did a test last night and straight away the positive line came up. When I tested again this morning it’s negative. My period isn’t due until Tuesday but feeling really crap and pregnant for the last week

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