My bf of 5 years who I just had a baby with… up and left me because I got upset over a lie he told me… I helped him get a phone the day before and he hasn’t even called me and I have no way of even reaching him… he just ghosted me. I feel so alone and so confused? We don’t live together as he wanted me to live in a sailboat with him? I can’t because the baby so I just don’t know what’s going on…
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I understand how you feel. You need to heal first.. it takes awhile but it is gonna be ok.
He is not the man for you.

Hey Hun I've got a postpartum support group on WhatsApp if u want to join, just messaged Ur number to me privately and I'll add u, it's important we all support each other x

girl, and before that I stood by him living in the side of the road, a shed, on the beach literally in a tent, in a van, in my car until he destroyed it. Literally. We had nowhere to live but I still TRIED. I am so stupid I feel so stupid and ashamed of myself but I’m going to say the truth. I’m a failure. Then baby came, he was a preemie he didn’t figure it out for us to get a place at all, instead his friend gave him a sailboat to maintenance while he’s away.. imagine new born baby (he’s now 8 months) me paying Uber to and from my moms house… just to see him? While there’s no light.. no water.. in the middle of the marina on a sailboat. Like a tiny sailboat 25ft. He is mad I won’t stick with him… but how can I do that to baby? I mean I’ll visit but to live? No. … yep I’m a mess.

A sailboat?! wtf

He sounds like a little kid. Who leaves someone over a lie THEY told? He should be coming to visit you, not making you bring baby around to see him in a sailboat he doesn’t even own 😂💀 I know its hard as hell to put your foot down, but you have to communicate with him. Otherwise take the phone away from him like hes a child 😂😂😂😂

thanks a lot. I’ve been going through a lot mentally for a while due to DV, being ghosted is probably the best thing to happen to me but I guess from the trauma it has me all crazy and delusional. One day at a time 🙏

hahahaha, girl he can keep the phone, that’s what he’s worth a free government phone 😂😂 I just helped him get it and he ghosted me the next day probably found his next victim .

Before I would 🍃 now that I’m pregnant I’ve become very spiritual