So i ended my toxic relationshipwith my bd. My car had issues and went out. I ran it by my bf thats 3hrs away and he said its ok to use his help. He jumped me off it worked for a little but by night fall the battery went out. So my bf drove down and charged my battery..by morning it still wouldnt work... so i asked my bro to jump me off wouldnt work...now BD is coming to help. I Love my bf a lot but i feel me constantlyneedinv help ftom bd will ruin things. What should i do
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I saw your last post. If your bf already said it’s fine then let your BD help you. He is the father of your kids and he should care enough to help you. However, you should have enough self control and boundaries that nothing comes of it. There are ways to be cordial co-parents and both befriend eachother without it destroying your current relationship. But you and your BD shouldn’t have contact that surpasses your safety or your kids. If it gets inappropriate or intimate you need to be able to draw that line.