Fitst time mum
Just needing a rant
I recently split from my partner and father of my daughter. (We are both first time parents)
I left him due to him not doing anything to help me with our daughter, not doing any housework while i was recovering, was very eager to go back to work, always demanded i give him sex ( asked me 2 days after giving birth whilst still in hospital also after having stitches from tearing) hes never changed her nappy, has left her sitting in a poo diaper for over an hour (i hadnt realised she had done a poo, or i would have changed it myself) never fed her, wouldn't watch her so i could shower or go to the toilet,
His excuse is ive not done this before, when i have tried to help him, also he works in disability support, so he knows how to do many things, and now his mum is threatening to take me to court so her father can have full cusotdy. Whar should i do in thid situation, i really need some advice, i believe my daughter should not be left in his care?