Lactose intolerance?

Hey all, I’m just wondering if anyone with a baby with lactose intolerance can help me with some advice.
My little girl is currently nearly 5 weeks old, constantly grunts, struggles to poo (once every 2/3 days), she grunts all night in pain and her tummy is rock hard.
She’s currently on normal cow & gate, but her fathers side of the family are all lactose intolerant, including her dad.

I’m wondering if this constant grunting and uncomfortable-ness might be because she may be lactose intolerant. If so what will the doctors do?

Thank you

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Ok so im lactose intolerant, firstly you need to try other forms of milk for baby that are dairy free and see if this changes anything also have you tried the bicycle leg technique or massage baby's tummy to help relieve some of that hardening as could be really bad trapped wind. The doctor will only tell you to give dairy free things and possibly something to help relieve the constipation x

this is so helpful, thank you. We are looking to switch to cow & gate comfort which is low lactose to see if it helps then go from there as it helps with constipation too? What do you think?
We’ve tried all techniques above but it’s like as soon as we stop she’s all pent up with wind again :( xx

It could be more a cows milk protein allergy than lactose intolerance it's two very different things and cmpa is very common with babies. I'd try a hydrolysed formula first like nutramigen for 6 weeks and if little to no change try and amino acid based one like puremino and it should clear it up. Another option is lactose free milk for 6 weeks and see if that helps but if it doesn't it would indicate cmpa

I agree with might be CMPA rather than lactose intolerance. My daughter from week 2 used to grunt and strain all night and was constipated, wouldn’t go poo for 2-3 days and always seemed uncomfortable and in pain. Her stomach was also very hard and bloated. Took her to a private paediatric gastro and he said she had silent reflux and CMPA. She’s now on omeprazole and hydrolysed formula (Aptamil pepti 1). I mix feed so I have also gone diary/soya/egg free and she’s sooo much better! It’s only been about 4-5 weeks but I’ve seen a significant change.

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