Opinions please

Personally, I’d pick up the phone and call my brother and have a very calm heart to heart and just say look you may not like me for whatever reason but let’s not get in the way of these kids being cousins.

I'll always buy for my nephews, they maybe their children but I'm also their auntie who one day will be way cooler than mum 🤣
I feel that I won't stop being my kind loving self just because they aren't being good to my baby boy, I'll be the better person and my newohes will see my efforts and like me seperatley from them

You are so sweet to make such an effort. I would ask. I can't believe your parents don't have an opinion! Mine would give him the biggest catholic guilt trip for being an idiot lol

I know I thought if I was my mum I'd speak to my brother and be like look I don't know what your problem is with your sister but she's been nice to you and your children she is a good auntie and it would be nice for the cousins to play etc but no she just says nothing

When my nephew was ready for swimming lessons he knew I was a swimming teacher and I said ill teach you to swim and I spoke to my brothers gf and said I'd love to teach him for free obviously and to come to my sensory swim classes. She said okay. Then I'm waiting she never comes for weeks then I go on Facebook one day to see a post saying just been for our first ever siwm lesson which was with a complete stranger. I was upset by this and I hadn't had a message ot anything which I thought was rude. So I spoke to her about it so did my partner and then she had clothes and toys on Facebook and didnt offer the to us when my baby wa born and at the perfect age for them so I messaged her and said we would of liked them and she said she needed money so I brought them. Bare in mind they both have plenty we had nothing and had been asked to leave our rented property and was using food banks

I've asked her now in a message, I was wondering and thinking why am I wondering just ask. Now I'll probably get a call form my parents saying my brothers rang them asking why I'm messaging his gf such things but I'm not doing anything wrong in asking such a thing, it's her own fault for being this way