Moving out of in laws

Salaam everyone My husband and I live with his mum, dad and 5 siblings. We’ve just bought a house and my family are very excited. My husband told his family when I wasn’t there. They’ve not really asked any questions about the house. They’ve said nothing to me about the house and I’ve also said nothing. We’ve not had it the easiest with them. My mil and fil are very backwards. We’ve had our fair share of ups and downs with them. I don’t know why but it’s very awkward to talk about it. I don’t speak much to my fil it’s Normally just a Salam. Anyway my husband has said the offer got accepted but I don’t think they think it’s real lol. How do we go about telling them that we are moving out. It’s just so awkward. We want to move out on a happy note. If anyone has been in a similar situation please let me know what you said. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Xx

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Surely they would understand that you need to move out. There's alot of people in that house. Once you have your own space, it may help your relationship with them as you won't be in each other's face alot. You can both tell them nicely that the offer has been accepted and you going are going to move out on this date and before then you would like your mil and fil to check the house out.

Girl enjoy your time!!! If they want to be happy for you guys, they will be. If they’re not happy, I don’t think anything you say or do will change that since it’s probably a control thing. Just tell them together, be prepared for them to be upset. But enjoy the process none the less. It won’t matter much when you don’t live with them

I would let your husband do it. Don’t ruin your happiness by being worried about what they will think or how to address it. If it was me and my husband already told them, I would tell them myself once I have the key

Hey I think it's important you chat with your husband. To discuss how you will take this forward in a mutual way. Also, I believe that they will take the news better from him, as it is their son. But absolutely nothing wrong with being with your husband for support

Don't worry about them, enjoy the process of preparation!! Your husband should handle the conversation x

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