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Advice. so my partner keeps bugging about a threesome since we had our baby. Idk how i feel about it but I don’t even know where to look to find other women😂 I’m so confused as to what I look up. Or how our relationship will be after wards…. What would yous do? & if yous have had one I need to know where to start 😭😂

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Well first off it’s completely up to you what you want to do my partner has also asked me this same thing many times. Each time I say no because the way our relationship would be after would not be the same. The thought of him kissing another woman or do anything with another woman with me there just makes me mad. If the roles were switched would he want another man to go down on you. Because that’s how me and partner figured out it was not something we are ever gonna do.

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Sorry it’d be an absolute no for me because why would you wanna do it with another woman it’d make me feel like I’m not enough

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Honestly I think the first step before you go ANY further is being 100% sure about how YOU feel about it first. Don’t feel obligated to do anything you don’t want to do. You just produced a miracle and aren’t even aware of all the changes your body has gone/is still going through, physical, hormonal, and otherwise. Just make sure however you move forward is something you’re absolutely into. If you ever decide to do so, I’m sure posting a pic of you two on tinder with an explanation would do the trick.

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I know you feel pressured when he keeps asking you just tell him it's not gonna be the same afterwards so are you okay with losing me just for something you want ? Do you really need a threesome? All in his response you will get your answers

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