Partner waking me up

I’m one of the lucky ones (for now) my 4 month old sleeps well at night and has slept through for weeks now except the occasional night. She is quite difficult to get to bed sometimes it takes me a loooong time which means late nights. I can cope with that but my partner wakes me up EVERY. Single. Night. He has eczema and starts scratching and I’m a really light sleeper, and what’s more it takes me ages to get to sleep so once I’m awake I’m awake for at least an hour and in that hour he’s usually tossing and turning then ends up on his back and then he snores horrifically. If I’m asleep the snoring somehow doesn’t disturb me but if I’m awake it’s horrendously disruptive He also comes to bed later than me and wakes me up when he gets in which is driving me insane. I get he wants a cuddle but at the expense of my sleep is not on It’s causing issues in our relationship because I am exhausted, I can’t get an early night because my little one is taking so long to get to sleep, then while she’s sleeeping through I’m up😩 I’ve asked him nicely please can you leave the room if you wake up in the night but he keeps ignoring me, then if I get woke up in the night I get frustrated and end up saying please be quite or huffing and puffing then he sleeps in the spare room and he gets annoyed at me He offered to spend the night in the spare room a few nights ago and typically it was a night where our little one was up for a few feeds 😂 so I couldnt catch up
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Surely he had eczema before the relationship & baby? I’m not sure what response you’re waiting for ? x

My husband is similar but without the eczema. He does try and be quiet bless him however wakes me up when he comes to bed, falls asleep before I do and then snores like a train lol. It is annoying however if he wasnt there I would miss him so I just let it go xxx

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