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I don't know what to do anymore, I'm really unhappy.....

I've been with my partner for 7 years now we have a 18 month old together but lately for a few months now things have not good between us. We're always arguing, I feel there's no passion between us. Everytime I bring it up he just says there's nothing to talk about we're fine. I'm really unhappy in the relationship where I don't even think I feel anything for him anymore. He looks at other women with makes me so insecure when told him this he just says he doesn't look at other women when I've seen him do it. It feels like he can't be bothered with our relationship anymore with is why I'm so unhappy. I've said I need space and want to go to my mums and maybe even have a trial separation to think about what we both want, but he said I don't need to go cause this is our home. I've told him how I'm unhappy in the relationship but he refuses to talk about it. He works nights and I'm a stay at mum but we don't spend any time together at all. I just feel theses no love between us anymore, we have been through so much as a couple and I don't know what to do anymore cause he tells he loves me but I don't believe anything that he says anymore.

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I’ve been going through something similar with my partner, I am pregnant and we started going out on dates again and I feel like it has been helping so maybe u both need abit of time together on ur own, go cinema or for a meal if u got the means to do that e.g babysitter etc. I hope everything get sorted x

It’s a phase

Introducing baby after so long is a real gaaaaaame changer!

Things change once you add a baby to the equation. You both just need time to adjust, also counseling.

That’s how my marriage ended. I communicate always. No one can ever say I didn’t tell them something, attempt to discuss an issue, or anything. My ex husband and I had been going downhill for awhile but one particular night we were getting into it. I was calm, I spoke soft, maybe accidentally smirked because I had just had enough and I said “okay. So are you telling me you will not talk about this and come to some kind of compromise together?” And he responded “no I don’t believe I did anything wrong” and I said “okay, then I’m done. It you aren’t willing to work together to fix even the smallest issues then you are clearly done as well.” And I packed that night. And left.

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