Feeling scared

Stress is only going to make it worse. You're probably having Braxton Hicks. Start timing how long they are and how far apart. It's unlikely you're in labor, but please call your OB if you have concerns. Pelvic pain and Braxton Hicks are normal in the third trimester. Yes, it means you're nearing labor, but it doesn't mean anytime soon. Take a deep breath!

I went to the hospital a couple days ago because I was feeling pressure the ob told me to go and all was good. I think it’s just me freaking out thinking I’m so close.

A bit of antepartum anxiety is also normal. If it becomes overwhelming fears, please tell your OB so they can give you some meds to calm. It's normal at this stage to feel swollen, more open, some pressure, as well as some light cramping. Download an app for contraction timing. Seeing how irregular they are may help you feel better

thank you any app suggestions? I wouldn’t even know how to go about using one lol

your going to think I’m stupid lol but idk how to use it I’m really only getting tightening so do I time how long it’s tight for if that makes sense?

That's exactly right. So start when the tightening starts, then stop when you gives up. Keep repeating. BTW you're not stupid, you're a first time mom and you're doing fantastic!

I am 35 weeks and have the same thing. It doesn’t have a pattern, increase in frequency or intensity over time, and usually goes away if I stand up and walk around a bit. I experienced it with my first, too, and he came right on his due date.

I know you saw hospital for pressure, but I would def schedule with your ob for the cramping. Just to be safe.

I see my ob Monday so going to discuss with him