Breakup
I’ve just become single completely out the blue. I’m so heartbroken. I need advice. His reasonings are so silly - to me - 1 being he feels second best to his 11 month old. 2 little things have built up over time. But he never communicated.
A friend of mine had said at the start of December he was asking her for advice and how to propose to me. I obviously didn’t know any of this until today.
A week ago he sent me the most lovely message saying we can get through anything, I love you so much etc.
His dad said he’s 1000% coming back but I’m holding onto hope but deep down I know it’s not happening.
What do I do. I need to be a good mum for my baby but I’m struggling so much. It’s only been 3 days :(
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Hey it’s so, so difficult. Especially with a baby involved and if it’s come completely out of the blue. I’m sorry that this has happened. Just know that you are stronger than you think you are and that you will get through this. We parent when we are grieving and lost, we parent when we feel like we have nothing left to give. We keep going because we have to and we are strong even when it doesn’t feel like it. I can’t say anything to take the hurt away and I’m sorry. Perhaps in time you will be able to speak over what happened with your partner. Lean on your friends and family if you can. Find ways to occupy your time and remember you will get through this x
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