Sooo me and my husband went to the same high school and one girl we went to school with has been OVERLY aggressive with liking every single post my husband posts…Like literally every single one…it’s giving desperate…I was going to add her as a friend BUT I decided I’d be giving her the attention she is looking for and it might escalate everything! I have not said anything to my husband about it..I don’t want to seem insecure…Do I just hope that she goes away? Or say something about it?
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If all she’s doing is clicking “like” I wouldn’t bother doing anything about it. Maybe she’s permanently scrolling social media and clicks like on everything she sees?

Eh, idk. If it’s enough for you to notice I’m sure your husband is noticing too. Is there a way to bring it up to your husband without coming off as insecure? It would rub me the wrong way too because it’s fine to like the occasional post but every one? Nope, not ok.
yes! I thought about that too! You have that person that will literally scroll and comment on everything….BUT i remembered when a guy we went to school with started doing that to me, liking all my posts and i eventually blocked him…I felt he was trying to get me to notice him..he started doing it suddenly out of nowhere…and this girl just started being aggressive out of nowhere
also he posted our family holiday photos and she didn’t like those..🤦🏽♀️ but she just happen to like most of the other posts after that..🙄
yeah I gotta figure out how to say something 😅 lol I have definitely grew as a person because the old me would have said something already..❤️🩹🤣

Maybe she does have a little crush on him, who knows? But if it doesn’t go beyond clicking like, if they’re not messaging each other and they don’t see each other in person, it seems pretty harmless

Id let it go. Its just social media . It’s for people to like stuff. Even if shes being flirty/ malicious. He’s YOUR husband, so she already lost 🙃

There’s nothing wrong with bringing it up to him. Maybe you could even mention when you had a guy doing the same to you and how you chose to block him.
…exactly…i thought about it and imma say something about it after I cook his favorite meal..make sure he is really in a good mood…!! 🤭 “like do you remember so and so from high school” …and then see what he say after that..🤔🤫 lol

Do you expect him to block her ?
nope I don’t… I just want to make sure he know I have my eye on her lol
he had a glow up since high school and I feel like these bishes seen the opportunity they missed..But you are right He my husband and I won! 🙌 🤭

Yeah dont give it to the pettiness. Because itll cause insecurity within yourself especially, if you find its not a big deal to him
💯 exactly I will not throw any negative energy to this situation ..

I Will just take his phone and block her easy fix lol but that just me .

Leave it to be if it was bothering him he would have done it himself.. as long as he’s not taking it a step further and you have trust in your man and he’s never stepped out on you.. like you said.. you’ve won the prize lol so do like winners do my love and just be
🤣🤣🤣🤭 I like you lol but I’m trying to be in my “unbothered” era 🤦🏽♀️ lol

Lol i can’t do the unbothered , the unbothered will make you still feel some type of way about the situation .
Sometime communication make is easier especially for married couples .