Relationship/Sex question from a Stressed FTM!
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Has he tried his hand?
@Willow I have and he respects it, but I can tell he is annoyed when it’s brought up
@Rosa he is actually super helpful with the baby and my needs, but I get the feeling he feels lonely mostly
Maybe you’re right, the adjustment for him that he’s not priority and it’s a life change. No more freedom. That sounds like the underlying issue that he masks with sex
Honey most men only care about sex mainly. I can’t believe he is even pressuring you for sex your child was in a very bad way at birth, this is disgusting behaviour really and not 100% supportive of him. Has he said, babe relax I’ll give you a massage then followed through?
why is he not interest when you are taking care of baby he should help so he is not “lonely”. 3 weeks is hardly long without sex, if you said 3 months then maybe, even so, it’s not a reason to get depressed.
I couldn’t imagine having my child in the NICU for that long and then having to go home to a partner that’s mad he’s not getting sex. He’s not the priority lol. Tell him to go to the bathroom and jack off if he’s that desperate. I woulda told him to fuck off and get the fuck away from me and my child 😅
Is he being (at all) supportive of the care that you and your baby clearly otherwise need? Is he engaged in that with you at all? Or just focussed on what he wants? I really hope you have other support around you too.