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I’m not taking it for borderline, but I take it for bipolar 2, it works well for me.

I have Bipolar 2 and it works amazing for me!! No weird side effects or issues.

I don't have borderline or bipolar and was prescribed this medication. It was great for me until I had kids

how did it affect you after kids?

yes curirous to hear how it effected you after !!

Adverse effects as well as straight up not working lol. I've suffered with anxiety since the second I opened my eyes and it helped. But, I had 2 babies in 11 months and I guess it changed my chemistry too much?

Yes I have been on it. I don’t feel like it was effective but they have genetic testing they do now even at your primary and tell you what your system responds/doesn’t respond to.

my therapist recently told me about this, and sent a form to my psych for me to complete it !!

for BPD?? If so if you don’t mind me asking what do you take now for it? Struggling

I was on it for bipolar 2 but got taken off for my pregnancy by my psychiatrist (but my OB said I would've been fine to stay on it). It really made a difference in my life and I plan to get back on it

I take it for boarderline, I see my psychiatrist and extra specialist doctor to monitor me and baby. I lowered as much as I could without going off started going ‘off’. Just got back on up but still pretty low and I’m fine with it. Like my doctor say I need to take care of me so that I can take care of my LOs

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For context: we are very non-religious, but I worry about the stigma of being non-circumcised when he would start to get interested in dating, navigating cleaning it and the risk of infection especially as he gets older and navigating potty training at daycare and stuff. I also worry about the increased risk of penile cancer. But then I also hate the thought of making my baby go through a major surgery unnecessarily and would prefer for them to make the choice when they are older if they choose to get circumcised.

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How do I end this friendship

My best friend of 15 years and I are in similar stages of life and her behaviour has gotten increasingly erratic and triggering. I am about to have my first baby and she is struggling with postpartum from her second who was born last August. All the “normal” post partum depression symptoms I totally understand but she has also in my opinion made a lot of selfish choices recently.

She is constantly yelling and berating her husband and kids as well as flying off the handle at the tiniest things and it’s super triggering for me coming from a previous abusive relationship. She’s honestly being abusive to her family.

I feel like she always makes everything about herself and her reasoning has gotten soooo misconstrued. She acts only on her emotions and doesn’t care about anyone else’s. She never accepts any constructive criticism or advice even though she complains 24/7 about everything.

She says she hates being a mom and doesn’t want to be around her kids , hates her marriage, hates her job, and complains 24\7 and refuses to do anything to change. She also makes everything about herself including my baby shower we just had. She’s made rude comments to my spouse as well.

I don’t have many mom friends but at this point she is just not the type of person I want to be around because she is being so mean and wanting to bring everyone down with her. Also I am about to have my first baby and just want to focus on me.

What would you do?

Our house is up for sale for 5 months, but hasn’t sold yet and we’re due our second baby in June. We have just reduced the price, can’t reduce down any lower without loosing money.

We live in a beautiful 2 bed house that we’re very comfortable in but just want the kids to have their own room.

Option A) leave it on the market with the hope it sells. Potentially could mean moving with a newborn and a toddler but then the kids shouldn’t have to share a room and once we’ve moved we’ll be settled for 10+ years

Option B) take it off the market, gives us time to nest/get ready for our daughters arrival and adapt as a family of 4. Kids can share a room once she is 6 months old (oldest will be 2 years) as the second bedroom is a large double. Get a conservatory which will create more space downstairs as we can move the dining room table. Relist the property approx January 2027 then hopefully find our next long term home afterwards