What else can I do?

Hi all . Here's the back story
I had an ectopic pregnancy where I lost a tube , followed by a twin live birth(they are now almost 9) since then I have changed partners and have been ttc for 5 years - 6 miscarriages. Iv been tested through NHS, blood test complete works and a camera investigation of my womb and nothing wrong. I even had my hormones and vitamins tested which came back fine , and iv lost a stone to try to bring my bmi down. We've been trying for 5 years and we plan on getting his sperm tested but what else can I do. Getting fed up! Must add I'm 37 xx

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Do you both take anything like pregnacare you can get a couples one x

I would look at paying for IVF - let them pick the best egg and sperm - I’ve had 4 miscarriages and that’s what I’m going to do if I have another x

Ivf is something that could be possibly next year or so but unaffordable currently- we take vitamins and track ovulation etc! It's very frustrating!

Maybe put him on some testosterone. His testosterone might be low or something since all your tests came back fine. Or your DNA don't mix which is why you keep miscarrying.

Iv had cervix checked- iv had previous lletz procedures so they did thibk it would be an issue when I was pregnant with my twins but I didn't end up needing it luckily! All of my miscarriages have been early ones! Because we have other children we won't get any NHS help for him only the basic tests for me - I'm hoping it's not a dna issue - I'll be starting with sperm test and go from there.! I'm on aspirin and I have progesterone waiting , had the camera check of my womb and all bloods are fine- iv been loosing a bit of weight and eating a bit better to help and taking vitamins too! Any other ideas are welcome xxxx

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Hey what are your current symptoms?

I’m 37+5

I’m pretty mobile still but anything over a hour or 2 and I’m in discomfort

Getting up from a sitting position is hard

Some of baby’s movements now are bordering on painful especially around my crotch/pelvis

I’m exhausted very easily and nap every single day

Can basically only breathe out my mouth now and I’m snoring and dribbling 😂

Standing in one leg is very painful 😂

Some waves of pain/ tightening but I regular and mild

Low period type aches

And I feel like a fire breathing dragon with this acid reflux

My nose is growing 😂

My fingers swell slightly and go numbs in my sleep so that and constant toilet breaks keep me up ( checked swelling with MW and consultant and all normal, not a worry)

I also do not want to be social in person like I’d rather everyone just be my penpal atm lol

What are your symptoms?

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Has anyone had a planned c section and been home the same day?